By Boni Wendel
Nurse Practitioner/Facilitator, Women’s Heart Secrets Program
What is it about those New Year’s resolutions that we make year after year that never get met? Is it because we have no commitment? Are we too weak to make any major changes in our lives? Is the deck stacked against us, no matter what? The answer to these questions may be both yes and no. I know that may sound somewhat wishy-washy but those who fail usually fail to plan.
A goal statement is a great way to succeed with New Year’s resolutions. Even better, don’t call your goals for better health “resolutions”; refer to them as “lifestyle changes” instead, because that’s what you’re really aiming for! Write out your goal for change and put it somewhere you can read it twice daily. This helps you to keep on target not only for January, but for the entire year.
So, if your resolution is weight loss, your goal statement may read something like this:
It is April 1, 2012 and I weigh 20 pounds less and I feel great! I am wearing my favorite jeans and getting ready to go out to eat with my girlfriends. I accomplished this goal by walking every day for 30 minutes—15 minutes on my lunch hour and 15 minutes in the evening. I also joined the YMCA where, on the weekends, I did the circuit work out and walked on the treadmill for 30 minutes. I gave up regular soda and limited sweets to once per week. I was mindful of portion size and half of my evening meal each day was fruit and vegetables. I’m so glad I stuck to my new habits!
You can use a goal statement for any lifestyle change you’d like to make in 2012, be it financial, personal, or professional. Make sure the goal is realistic and stay true to yourself. Also, don’t try to change EVERYTHING at once. Lifestyle change, like any meaningful change, can be slow to develop.
What if you don’t meet your goal? Simple – just revise it! Identify the obstacles that did not allow you to meet the goal. Also identify how you can change your strategies to overcome these obstacles so you can get to where you want to be.
You are not weak. You are not afraid of commitment. The deck is not stacked against you. You’re a strong person and, with a little planning and resolve, can achieve the lifestyle changes you desire!
